This week was a banner week for making connections with new members of my family. After doing an intensive search last October through various online databases for anyone related through my dad’s great-grandfather, I finally heard from a woman who I had never previously met. We share a common ancestry and yet our families had never met. Her great-grandfather and my great-grandfather were brothers.

Then yesterday, another new family member popped up. This time, the connection came through an email sent to me three years ago through ancestry.com. I happened to be online on that site yesterday doing some research when I saw this man’s email asking if we were related. When I saw his grandmother’s last name, I realized that she was my maternal grandmother’s older sister – and again, we had never met or known about one another.

With the tools available now for research, one can trace their ancestry back well beyond what the memory remembers.

Today I had the pleasure of speaking to my mother’s 94-year old second cousin – someone who remembers my late grandfather and can tell me stories about him. My grandfather passed away when my mom was just a child so I’ve never known much about him. I’m excited about the possibility of recording this distant cousin’s stories and adding them to the memoir I originally wrote about my mom’s family several years ago.

Why is this important? Because every year, my family gets smaller as the older folks pass on. These are the people who remember those who came before us and can hopefully paint a vivid picture of who my ancesters were, how they lived, and what they were like.

As a memoir writer, I’m always looking for new information to add to my stories. With the addition of these two, recently-found family members – on my dad’s and my mom’s side of the family – I get to take a guided walk into the past to learn new information about people who were once close family members to my elders. This is an amazing gift and one that I hope more people will take before they lose these priceless resources.

As I finish this week, it’s the beginning of a new journey that I’m looking forward to taking, and the start of what I hope will be new friendships and ongoing relationships with long, lost family members who I never knew before.

By Pat Kramer

On Thursday, February 27, 2020, California Highway Patrol Public Information Officer Vince Ramirez presented “Age Well, Drive Smart” at Sunland Senior Center to share information on safe driving to mature drivers. Over the next hour and a half, PIO Ramirez presented helpful information and answered questions including, when it is safe to give up your driving priviledges. Here’s a summary of what was presented:

The Baby Boomers (post WWII babies) are a very large population group which is now reaching (or have reached) retirement age. According to CHP statistics, there were 3 million people 65 and older in the State of California in 1990. By 2,000, there were 3.8 million and now in 2020, there are approximately 5.2 million people 65+. By 2020, that number is expected to reach 9 million in the State of California.

The impacts of living:

When a driver is aged 70 or older, it’s time to rate your reaction time, vision and hearing and to understand whether you are impacted by medication or physical issues affecting your legs, feet, hands, back or neck as these can impact the ability to turn, brake or accelerate.

Multitasking is never a good idea!

Additionally, with the advent of Smart Phones, we can now text to others in real time and get phone calls through our Blue Tooth devices. However, it’s never a good idea to multitask – at any age!  Looking down at your device, even for one second, can lead to a collision when someone in front of you stops suddenly. You can also swerve into another lane and cause someone else to have an accident.

Why is it so hard for seniors to know when to give up driving?

• Because driving provides seniors with a feeling of self-worth and independence as well as the ability to be social, enjoy recreational opportunities, travel and see friends and family.
• It’s not always easy to use public transportation. Waiting for a bus can expose you to the elements, you may have to walk a distance, and it often means you will have to allow more time to get to your destination.
• Using the Metro system may mean having to drive to a parking lot to get a train, and that can be confusing.

Another reason people don’t give up driving when they are not fully capable of driving safely, is because they don’t necessarily know when their driving is unsafe. It often requires a person’s physician, family member or close friend to intervene.

How do you intervene to get someone off the road?

If you believe that someone should not be driving, you can report the unsafe driver to the Department of Motor Vehicles (DMV). Tressa Thompson is the DMV Senior Driver Ombudsman who says if someone is an at-risk driver, a written report needs to be filed with the DMV called “Request for Driver Reexamination” (DS699). The DMV will then initiate an investigation and they will keep the reporter confidential if asked to do so. Both she and CHP Officer Ramirez said this is a serious issue that usually involves the individual’s doctor, who is mandated to report inability to operate a motor vehicle safely, and often friends or family, who may have observed warning signs.

How to report someone as being unsafe behind the wheel?

Tressa says you can get the form at: www.DMV.CA.Gov by searching for “Request for Driver Reexamination” or report DS699. You can also call Tressa if you need more information at: (310) 615-3552

For those who are still healthy and fully functioning, here are some ways to ensure longevity and maintain alertness:

• Get regular exercise
• Engage in brain teasers like puzzles or games
• Stay active – walking, dancing, etc.
• Maintain good nutrition and hydration
• Control alcohol intake
• Take required medications at needed
• Don’t get behind the wheel if a medication affects motor vehicle skills
• Don’t drink and drive

When driving, always use the three second rule: Stay a pace of three seconds behind the car in front of you to avoid sudden stops.

Other suggestions:

• Drive during off-peak hours.
• Don’t drive at night.
• Use surface streets to avoid freeways.
• Know how to reach your destination before you leave home.
• Have the address and phone number of where you are going written down on paper, not just on your Smart Phone (in case your phone goes dead or gives you wrong info).
• Use public transportation – seniors get a discount on Metro.

Enter ICE information on your phone.

ICE means “in case of emergency.” This information should be put into your phone for emergency responders to use if something should happen and you are unable to speak.

Maintain your vehicle.

Keep your vehicle in good working order, check your tires to see if they are getting low, have your oil checked at regular intervals, make sure you have washer fluid for your windshield, and make sure your headrest and seat belt are adjusted correctly. The headrest should be directly behind your head, not your neck.

When to Call CHP:

While Sunland-Tujunga is part of the City of Los Angeles and is patrolled by the Los Angeles Police Department, the California Highway Patrol can also be called if there is an emergency on the road. CHP oversees the freeways, county roads, state highways and some unincorporated areas of the City of L.A. They also oversee accidents incidents involving school buses when children are injured.

CHP can also write traffic tickets if they see something illegal occurring in our community!

If you see an incident involving property damage (such as a hit and run) or witness any violence occurring on the road, call it in to either CHP, LAPD or both at the following #s:

• CHP, Altadena Office: (626) 296-8100 (during the day).
• LAPD Valley Traffic: (818) 734-2223 (For hit and runs or other property damage)
• In an emergency, always call “911” or if you spot a drunk driver.

By using an ounce of prevention and caution, most mature drivers can continue to drive safely until it’s time to let others take over by using other means of transportation such as: public assistance, private transportation, buses, Metro or friends and family.

At some point, you may also decide that it’s just “not worth it” to drive long distances, at night, or on the freeways at which point, you can explore other options.

Letter received January 13, 2020

Dear Pat,  

On behalf of the Angeles Chapter, it is our pleasure to inform you that you have been selected to receive the Special Service Award given to Sierra Club members who deserve special recognition for noteworthy service to the Angeles Chapter.  You are known for your outreach work on issues in your community. You have been named Woman of the Year for Sunland-Tujunga by Congressman Adam Schiff. You serve on the neighborhood council in S-T, examining traffic patterns in the area. You have been active on the Management Committee of the Crescenta Valley group, most recently serving as secretary.

Please be our guest to receive your award at the Angeles Chapter Awards Banquet on Sunday, May 3, 2020.   Beginning at Noon, the reception and buffet luncheon will be held at the Friendship Auditorium, 3201 Riverside Dr. LA 90027.   http://angeles.sierraclub.org/about_us/awards_banquet  

Congratulations and thank you so much for all the work you have done for the Angeles Chapter and the Sierra Club.  

Best Regards,  

Paul Cooley, Donna Specht, Cathy Kissinger

Angeles Chapter 2019 Awards Committee Officers

Occasionally, I like to check my Yelp account to see if anyone I’ve worked with has posted any reviews. I’m delighted to share these twenty new five-star ratings that my clients were kind enough to write about my service.

(For whatever reason, Yelp has chosen to hide 14 of the 20, so if you look for them, you will only see six of them. Why they do this is the great unknown question – perhaps someone reading this has insight into Yelp’s policies regarding hiding reviews).

Anyway, I’m pleased to share all of them here. I am dedicated to providing great service to my clients and whether they need my help once or on an ongoing basis, I give everyone the same level of service.

“Thank you Pat! I really appreciate your awesome service and professionalism. My husband and I felt right at home with your charming hospitality.” Celeste S., Sylmar, CA

“Pat took one look at my Linkedin profile, and in very little time, I went from a very basic profile to fully professional presence. Clients often comment on having visited my Linkedin profile, and been impressed. I would recommend Pat to anyone, such as myself, who doesn’t have the time or skill let to create professional marketing media.”  David H., Oak Park, CA

“Pat is a very competent, conscientious writer.    She researches her subject matter; homes in on what the client wants, and provides a final document with which her clients are satisfied.  She is comfortable writing biographies, marketing and advertising literature and articles for newsletters, newspapers, and magazines.  A big plus for Pat is her expertise in the social media arena, where she develops material across various social media sites.” Bettie P., Sunland-Tujunga, CA

“Pat did great work for our not-for-profit. I highly recommend her. Her professionalism, talent and creativity are awesome.”  R G., Culver City, CA

“Pat is pleasure to work with and a total professional. She is very dependable and produces quality work, she really knows what she is doing. Her expertise in regards to content creation, press releases, blog writing, LinkedIn and many other marketing functions. I recommend you give her a shot when you require her various professional services.” Eddy M., South Pasadena, CA

“Website owners often overlook the importance of language and the writing craft to their online presence. It’s about the marketing message, well presented company information, and the use of words –key words and key terms in page content– to enhance search engine rankings. That’s where Pat Kramer excels. In addition to a broad range of writing projects, she has helped my website design business provide well-crafted written content for mutual clients that meets all these requirements. I highly recommend her to my clients, not only to those who struggle with writing but to those who need to “polish” their message.” Paul H., Los Angeles, CA

“Professional, reliable, easy to work with, and delivers quality work. Pat wrote a :60 radio spot for our company within a tight timeframe. She listened to direction, made helpful suggestions, and confidently completed a final product that we were pleased to air.” Holly T., Pittsburgh, PA

“I used Pat Kramer for our company web page, bios, resumes, linked in profile, etc. and we will be using her again in the near future. Pat is an excellent writer and has a natural talent for bringing out the best qualities in you and your company. She’s the best and I highly recommend Pat Kramer for all your writing and editing.” Charles B., Pasadena, CA

“Pat has that rare combination of being a gifted writer and easy to work with. She is patience yet moves the writing process forward. I always looked forward to our calls because I knew she would capture the exact word that was creative and expressive. She was very helpful in writing the content for my web site and blogs. I would encourage anyone who needs a gifted writer to contact her.” Bruce H.  Santa Monica, CA

“Can’t recommend Pat Kramer enough, she is smart, kind, knowledgeable, professional, and really cares about her clients – when I was updating my bio and linked in, she was instrumental in showing me off in the best light – Pat Kramer is worth her weight in gold!”  Scott N.

“Pat recently wrote a press release about my new book, “Appraising Manufactured Mobile Home Communities and Recreational Vehicle Parks,” and then distributed it on the newswire service where it was picked up by over 100 media. She wrote it in such a way as to highlight my expertise in the area of appraising this select market, and in doing so, has helped both my company – Valbridge Property Advisors, and myself to gain recognition in a major way. I highly recommend Pat for anyone seeking a press release to announce an accomplishment, whether it is writing a book, winning an award, speaking at a major conference, or even putting on a charity event. She knows how to do it in a way that will generate referrals and put you and your company on the map.” Rob S., Glendale, CA

“Pat has put together a monthly newsletter for our non-profit agency for years. Her newsletters are always interesting, readable and well-crafted. Pat’s courtesy and level of professionalism are a breath of fresh air. We highly recommend her.” Larry B., Van Nuys, Los Angeles, CA

“Pat Kramer is a low key person (she eliminates stress) who, nonetheless, has a powerhouse way of getting things done.  Without fuss or bother Pat has edited some of my written work in a style that reads like my own.  Pat is quite OK that I take most, but not all, of her edits.  I have never given Pat a piece of work she has not made better.  Pat has also helped me and others I know with our LinkedIn pages.  She has both suggested things for those pages and helped me understand new rules on that site.  Thank you Pat.”  K.C. V., Los Angeles, CA

“I am a busy commercial real estate broker who has worked with Pat Kramer on numerous occasions.  She is not only a highly skilled writer but really knows the media business.  The level of her contacts at newspapers and magazines is amazing and invaluable.  If you are looking to promote or burnish your brand or your activities through the written word, you need to hire Pat.” Aaron W., Downtown, Los Angeles, CA